Skipped work on Friday to go fishing with DarDar, Michelle & Gerald
We went to Raffles Marina at Tuas
& it was so damn beautiful!
Look at the yachts!!!
One of these will be mine one day.... in my next life

As it's around evening
The sunset was extremely pretty too

Of all the fishing sites I'd been
This place is the best

DarDar caught 3 fishes within 15mins
Usually DarDar could only catch 1 fish in 1 hour

Michelle & I went to look at soft coral that had grown along the berth
& one man came over & made friends with us
& invited us to sit on his mini speedboat that was parked at the other side
Being playful
Me & Michelle sat in it
Passed by the lighthouse where DarDar & Gerald were fishing
We waved to them frantically
They were so damn jealous we had a ride out in the sea
Heehee

We fished all the way till 10 plus
& we had about 20 fishes
Dean came later & picked those fishes for his Indian workers

Beside us was a family
Who used nets to catch fish
But they'd scared away all our fishes!!!

Oh anyway
Raffles Marina is a nice place
I must go find an Ang Moh friend who has a yacht there
Hahaha

WAHAHAHAHAHA
I'm so excited!
I'm going Brisbane, Australia in December with DarDar's family
& all expenses paid!

DarDar said it's a wedding gift from his dad
WAHAHAHAHAHA
& we'll be travelling to this farm, Sea World & Warner Brothers Movie World
WAHAHAHAHAHA

I AM ALL SO EXCITED!
I WANNA TAKE PHOTOS WITH MY SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS!!


DarDar just stared at me when I said I wanna sleep with Spongebob since we'll be spending a night in the theme park resort anyway

=X

I'm totally engrossed with the new PSP game that DarDar downloaded
I am not really a game guru
So I always request for 'brainless' games that I need not think too much about it
While flipping through the catalogue for such 'brainless' game
I chose Spongebob Squarepants: The Yellow Avenger
(Spongebob is already pretty brainless, so I guess the game should be as dumb)

When I started playing, I was immediately hooked
It's so fun that I refused to let DarDar play his Innocent Life

It involves lots of problem solving
But it doesnt requires much brain cells
Which is a very very plus point for me since my brains are no longer active for the past few months

But now I'm stuck in this stage that I cant go anywhere

......................

Cant find walkthrough guides too

I'm gonna finish the whole damn game within next week!
Just pray that my dark eye circles dont appear

I had 2 full day of diahorrea
& I almost died of gastric pain
I kicked DarDar to wake up in the middle of the night
But he's as dead as my dead thunder crab in the kitchen
So I gobbled my dhamotil & antacid to survive
Taught him a lesson the very next morning

I hope I get better soon!
It's been long I last feel like shit

I'm playing around with Facebook
& I found it pretty interesting
BUT
Too many things to play around with
& it's getting me confused

Did I mention that we went to Stanley's solemnization ceremony yesterday?
Geez
It took place damn fast
Within minutes
The couple is Husband & Wife

I'm so excited about mine

Hohohohohoho

Not saying that I'm dying to be Mrs Pang
But the fact that I'd never done such proud moments in front of my family ever
Needless to say in front of his family too
*gasps*

& I hope the slimming tea works!

Ouch
My feet are covered with bristle from the bristleworm!
This is hell man!
THe bristle are so fine that it can poke into the skin anywhere
& you cant take it out coz it's so fine & transparent

I'm limping as I walked!
Somemore I had to attend my friend's solemnization just now
JUST IMAGINE....

Sigh

I drove Dean's wife & kids back home first
& left DarDar behind to play with his friends
& now
DarDar is dead drunk
Now sleeping beside me smelling like Martell

Gosh
It's only 2 more weeks to mine
& I'm still feeling fucking fattttttttttttttttttt

Sigh....
I wish I'm gone again

Recieved my supposedly-good news from NIE
Hesitating the offer due to financial problem

Scholarship not granted
Sigh

I just wanted to try my luck if I could even take up MSc in the 1st place
& so I did
Then I wasnt granted the scholarship
Parents told me to continue studying since I'm able to get in
But I lack of confidence, wondering if I could do it
I donno if I can get the job I want when I graduated AGAIN
Will it be a waste of time, money & effort?

I am very lost

DarDar said his dad could possible help me
But 10K per year is a huge sum! (if I'd calculated that correctly)
I donno how many cycles of reincarnation would it be to repay everyone's kindness

I really donno if I should accept or reject
Accept: for the sake of working in my related fields overseas, where mini job requirement is a MSc
Reject: for the fear that I wont find my desired job again, wasting everyone's time, money & effort and fearing of forced withdrawal due to lousy performance

When fear overwhelms confidence
I'm just a piece of shit

Pictorial summary of my 9 days cast-away in Phuket
=D
Made friends with a group of Vietnameses too!

Enjoy




















Happy moments always end at pub...

Will be back at Phuket sometimes soon!

I'm back!!!!
9 days of no-internet usage & pure island exploration
COOL!

I'm going back soon one day
& explore the other side

I bet main Thailand i.e Bangkok is probably the same
So maybe no needa go so many times
=p

We made friends with a bunch of Vietnamnese
Got to know them when we were bargaining for our items
& day passed
We chatted with one another
& then on the last night before our departure
They brought us to Tiger Disco & have fun
Played fireworks & drank
Way cool!!!!

Dives at Phi Phi Island were fabulous
I saw leopard shark twice!!
& also a giant moray eel that freaked DarDar out
LOL!!!!

Loads of pictures to be uploaded
But meanwhile
I still needa catch sleep

*yawnz*

I'm going to Phuket!
In just 2 more days

Finally I'm out of Singapore
To a place for relaxation
Free my mind from all the stupid nonsensical issues
& be back with a clear piece of mind

=D

I just met Kenneth to borrow his dive computer
It cost SGD$1000!
What the fuck
Must really take care
So scare I spoil it man...
Anyway I'd also wanna learn how to use it
Might probably get a second-hand one when I have money

Ah
Friends are booking for January's Similan Live-Onboard Dive trips already!
I dont even know how my future looks like in 4 months time
Let alone to even see if my bank is still surviving

Speaking of which
I think I'd forgotten to bank in my cheque
Heehee

Alrighty
See you guys next next week
=)

Yesterday was requested to do maintenance check for all the water systems
Total 21 systems
Do until headache
Coz have to collect 3 samples of 5ml water from each system
To test for KH, pH and NO2

For one particular tank
Its NO2 level was 0.5mg/l
The level is indicated by showing how 'pink' the solution is after mixing with reagents
& by stating the result
Boss questioned his doubt

"Show me how you do the test?"
"Like this like that loh"
"Ok.. I just wanna see if it's procedure error or something's wrong with the test kit.. You see, I just tested and it indicated 0.2mg/l"

I looked at his testtube
"Hmm.. it looked like it's between 0.2mg/l & 0.5mg/l"
"Maybe it's the environmental conditions that could have affect the reading. As far as I know, the water had just been changed, so 0.5mg/l is very unlikely..."
I looked at the testtube again
"Eh? Now it looks darker... 0.5mg/l wor"
"Like I said, maybe it's the heat that affect..."
"Maybe loh.. yesterday was quite hot also.. but anyway, the standard level is 0.1mg/l, so it doesnt really matter if it's 0.2mg/l or 0.5mg/l, you still have to do something about it.."

Boss kept quiet
Then his phone rang

I escaped from his inquiries

I thought for a long while
I was very troubled by the readings I had gotten
It seems to me that he didnt believe me at all
Insisted that he's correct

O_o

I told my colleagues
They explained to me & asked me to show Boss the instruction of using the NO2 kit
Instructions say:'Wait for 3 to 5 minutes for results'
I was like "Hey! I'm correct loh!'
Colleague told me just dump that instructions in front of his face
& said that he always insists his way

Oh well
At least for me I know I wasnt wrong
But hard to clarify my 'wrong' due to his insistence

Bleah

Nevermind
Next week I will show him again

I just got back from my hair show
Aiyo.. the make up was so thick!
I got a shock when I removed it
All my cotton pads were orange due to the foundation
Me during my hair preparation
I waited for 2 hours before it's my turn out on the stage
& my contact len dropped once I was out
& i was like 'Oh shit'
But I just pretended nothing happened...

There's a professional model out with us
Her poses were really nice
Sigh
I felt so =(
Getting fat & feeling so inferior
I believe I didnt do so well due to low self-esteem

Anyway
My hair was done
& lotsa photoshoots by professional cameraman

My hair is cut slanted
So one side is shorter than another
=)


Nice mah?

I'm surprised I looked good with smokey eyes makeup
But in close contact
The smokey effect is really scary
However it was a good experience
& now I know what makeup to miss
Heehee

Recently
I feel that I've been treating DarDar abit bad
& I could sense that he isnt feeling good about it too

Everytime I tease him with all the things that should be done that he did
& he'll just looked at me with a -_- face
I tickled him to make him laugh

Maybe
I'm doing it the wrong way
Probably his heart is bleeding
But the artificial laughter covers it

Recently
He's into some kinda trouble
That may cause attendance in court

He isnt doing anything coz he repeated he donno how to do it
while I didnt know how to do it sought ways to do it

View this
Our characters are totally different

Having desperately to help him
I called my friends, SMSed my friends, Msned my friends to find out how
But he was sitting beside me looking at me doing it

I felt abit pissed
coz I'm taking my effort to solve a problem that does not belong to me

I understand that even if he's not my husband-to-be
I would also do it for a simple friend
However
The fact is he is my husband-to-be
He should solve the matter himself then letting the wife-to-be worried

Not saying that he should hide all matters to least make me worry
But share it so I can provide my thinking cap
Since I always have lotsa solutions even as to how to kill an ant effectively

Saying so
Could I have been way too superior controlling him of his way of living?
Or could it just be him that couldnt be slightly changed?

I wondered
If we might end up arguing every day after the rings had been placed on our fingers
Are there gonna be more hidden problems to least make me worried but gained scoldings from me?

I love my DarDar
His love to me is protective
Maybe it's also time for me to protect his protective love

I was cut by a USED sharp needle yesterday during my clinic shift
It was small yet deep
& my blood kept flowing out like tapwater
I guess it'd cut my main tiny blood vessel

I went to wash with running water
Squeeze the blood out
& press with alcohol-swap

What the fuck

I could have contacted all sorts of blood-transmitted infectious disease
if that patient has it all
I told Dr Wong
But Dr Wong didnt offer me any blood screening

In my previous company
Whoever got a cut
Even the slightest cut which blood oozes
Blood screening is needed

So feeling a bit curious
I asked my friend
She encouraged me to go for one despite the offer
& so I did this morning

Now I shall wait for my report

Went to dig mussels just now
& brought back some for DarDar's family to eat
His cousin saw the anoxic mud spitting out
He felt disgusted & suggests everyone throw it away
I heard liao I also feel disgusted

Do you know how mussels survive?
They filter-feed
Of coz the mud is in them!
To eat them, soak them in clear water so as to release the mud
After that, can eat liao!

You think what?
Those at tze char one just pluck & cook without cleaning?

Cant stand urban people
Live the primitive way for a change!
*rolls eyes*

Went BBQ with Michelle & friends at Kranji just now
Had the mussels for the meal
His friends went to catch flower crab & prawn
& it was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet & delicious!

I love the butter prawn most
It's buttery-salty but the prawn is sweet

But
Being an environmentalist always have issues regarding this
Overfishing, overharvesting & all sorts of things to profit us
I keep telling her later take out all the prawns how?

Like right now I'm helping my friend in her farm
We are to make fish food for her fishes
We had prawns, roes, fish, squid, mussles, clams, kelp all mixed to produced a 400ml of feed
Imagine we can eat the ingredients for ourselves
I told her some real-life stories of how tuna mariculture is being done
& other facts bt fisheries too

Oh well...

Hey
I forgot to mention
Just now DarDar went fishing at kranji
He caught a sea snake!
His rubbish rod can catch almost all the weird animals that can be found in the water
Now he's to another fishing sites
I wonder what he will bring home next.....

Je suis tres mal

I AM VERY SAD!

I'm being offered an internship in MEXICO
MIND YOU IT'S MEXICO!
& I cant go coz of financial problem
It's a fucking big chance where I can gain experience for 5 weeks
& it cost me USD$2.5K (~SGD$5K)

FUCK!
WHY AM I NOT BORN RICH?!

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My heart is bleeding

We cooked the marbled goby on Friday night for dinner
=x
& this is my 1st time eating this acclaimed-delicate dish

Hmmm... so so only loh
It's just a fish afterall
Just that the flesh is real tender
Not much of the 'fish' taste though

Anyway
It's only $16 instead of the normal $160
Coz we went to have it done at a Tze Char store
Heehee

Had my hair done
Dreaded for a cut desperately
Spent 4 hours to do it
& it's not completed

It's only some hair preparation for my hairshow on 1st October
Gotta do catwalks on a x inch heels
Urgh
Hope I dont fall down

Been busy these few days
Like care-free living afterall
Working in a fisheries farm is my least expected
But I gained related experience about aquarium trades

So much back to my knowledge on Fisheries & Mariculture
& there I gave some short consultation to my friend regarding their processes

Just a lil thought though
Not too much
Until I have the power to open a Environmental Consultation firm myself

HAHAHAHAHA

Well
It's not too bad to dream
At least it has always been my dream
A dream I'm chasing for

Step by step
I guess I'm working on it

Somemore I just applied for a marine research programme in Mexico
If they allow me to join them
That's even another step closer

I guess it really takes lotsa sacrifices to work towards a dream
Whenever I told DarDar about me going somewhere overseas to do my related things
He gave me that kinda look

Probably sounds abit selfish to go ahead in order to realise my own dreams
But I do not wanna die without achieving anything
I guess that's why my JC testimonial wrote me as 'strong-willed' girl

Ah!
We shall see how it goes

I was reading this magazine that says:
3 outta 5 employers complaint about having untalented employees
& it commented that if you find that your work is not supportive & unappreciated
LEAVE

I think I'd made the right choice after 1.5yrs
& i hope it's not too late

It's a hectic day at work today
All the manual work reminded me of my FYP days
But I'm not at all worried about it
Coz I've got the muscle to work on!
Hee Hee

Rushed back home to shower after the day
Smelling totally fresh & sweet due to my bath foam
The odour in the bus turned me off totally

I forgot Tekka is along the journey

All the funny curry powder smell that was smeared at whichever part of the body

*shakes head*

Met Jasinda, Ling & Ash for dinner at Beppu Ramen
It's Ling's birthday
Ate the hot ramen & chatted over the table
& then went to C.A.N cafe for another chit-chat

DarDar went fishing
& he caught a soon hock!!

KNN
It's so fucking big that he went all crazy about
& KNN
It's so fucking big that it looked so fucking UGLY!!!
& KNN
My friend Dean kept tell me it tastes fucking nice

KNN
How come big ugly fishes always taste nice?

I believe it's how evolution works
When you think that a guy is fucking fat & ugly, he's actually very kind-hearted
So....
Hmmmmm

Anyway
It's gonna be deep-fried tomorrow
Lalalalalalalala

Soon Hock at Tze Cha stall
I wonder if the chef is gonna cook it fabulous

"Hey Dar, shall we go back & take a look at Skippy?"
"Ah? No need lah.. should be fine.."

The night passed and we returned to DarDar's house in the afternoon
Feeling abit weird as there's no sound coming the the 3-storey cage

Usually when we're back
Skippy will greet us at the cage
Scratching the mesh with his paws
Wanting us to carry it out
I looked in
A black patch of 'thing' at the bottom
I slapped the cage
Nothing moved
I took a closer look

My 6th sense was right

Skippy laid dead
Its hind leg was caught between the metal bar
& it looked like his struggle to get out of the bar has failed

I shouted for DarDar who was entering the room
He was shocked
Both of us looked at the dead Skippy

DarDar tried to take Skippy out
But its leg was really stuck
We believed that's how Skippy had met this freak accident

Its body was still soft yet cold
As we stroke on its gentle fur
We were hours late

My tears rolled down
DarDar cried too

Skippy was a handsome unique chap
It came to us when it's 4 months old
It has a chipped ear that makes him look like he's a pirate
But it was only with us for less than a year
At times I told DarDar to spend some time with Skippy
But I guess it's been too late

DarDar wrapped the body
And brought it for cremation

Really sad
Looking at the flames engulfing Skippy
I see that it will probably look the same when I'd stopped breathing

Love you, Skippy
Although you're not mine
But the moments you'd given us was indeed a pleasant joyful one
You'd grown so much within this year
& I love you looking at me with your innocent look

We're sorry to have neglected you
I wish you have a better home up there
Do come back to visit us

You're deeply missed

Love,
Cyn & Kel

My car was up to lorry AGAIN yesterday
ZZZZZZZZZZ
It's causing me too much trouble that I'm starting to feel it's more of a nuisance than pleasure

But probably coz it's an old car

Bleah

Anyway
It was over
& it's DarDar's job to do all those car problems too

I just washed my hands clean whenever it dies
Hohohohohohohohohohohohhohohohoho

DarDar was crazy
He woke up early this morning
Just to order MacDonald's breakfast
-_-

My internet connection is fucking slow lately!
I cant watch my Japanese drama in peace
Urghhhhhh

Oh
I'm going to a BBQ later
=D

I am going to Donno island*!
Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I will be diving
& diving
& diving
& diving
& diving

Wooohoooooooooo

I can finally step beyond Malaysia

I am so happy
Cant wait for that week to come

So excited that I cant sleep!

=D

*FYI, Donno Island = Phuket Land.
'Pu Ji Dao' = Donno

Ok I'm lame
But at least I am still good at it at this age

The so called 'Tian Shen Wo Cai Bi You Yong' phrase is so wrong
It's starting to make me lose myself

I once read an article about this guy
Who graduated from his Major
But was not able to get a related job
Worked in another industrial field
Not as happy as he expects
Keep looking for another
Got rejected due to no experience
He sank into depression
And almost lost his mind

I think I'm beginning to be like him

I met up with my old classmate this morning
She brought me to her mariculture farm
Looks like she's enjoying her work there
Feeding fishes, breeding corals
She also mentioned another friend of ours
Who's working for in an animal concern group

I had a deep sigh in my heart

They have a job of their passion

But why not me?

I've got everything!
A driving licenses to get me round the land by wheels to get specimens and whatever
A diving licenses to get me underwater for specimens or surveys or researches
A First Aid Certification to keep people alive in case of emergency
A Bachelor degree that specifies my field when it's now a big concern about environmental impacts

I dont think I'm being ambitious
Because all I've gotten above is not what I'd expected for the future
It just came gradually as I would wanna venture into this path

Seems wrong

DarDar told me real-life stories like Bill Gates
He didnt have any IT qualification
And a school drop-out like him is so successful now

My reply to him was
"That's why I'm such a failure coz I've got my degree"

I could sense DarDar's virtual slap on my face

I'm sorry
I just cant take it anymore
And of coz I understand I cant go on thinking about all this sad facts
But I think I'd become the boy mentioned above

I am depressed

I hope a short getaway can loosen my thoughts

Please, bring me out somewhere

What the fuck?

Yesterday was so sunny & hot
That the very moment I stepped out of the car at Bottle Tree Village
I almost felt I melted
& I told myself that I'll swim 20 laps to shield the excessive float around my waist

But now?
The sky looks so grey
In fact
It drizzled

Kanasai

It seems like the weather is also 'working'
Monday to Friday pour
Saturday & Sunday shine

Nothing much happened yesterday
Just the urge to go out somewhere
So we went to Bottle Tree Village at Sembawang

Fuck la
Thought very nice
But it's just only 3 trees of such species
& a very big empty restaurant which only operates at evening

So we went to Sembawang Park
Loaded with people
Swimming, BBQ-ing, fishing

Intolerant about the heat
We headed to Causeway Point
Nothing much to shop
Had Sakae Sushi for dinner
& off to work I went

Dean & DarDar came look for me for supper after my clinic work
Headed to Farmmart
OH gosh
Ordered Lala & Sotong
Damn yummy

Now I crave for tze-cha
Must find one day eat nice food

It's 9plus in the morning
I am early
Reflex action for the past 1.5 years
Indeed a bit hard to knock habit off

BUt it's ok
I made breakfast for DarDar just now
Heehee

Guess I'm back to sleep in 10mins time =)

I wonder how
I wonder why
I wonder why everyone says I'm friendly except my stupid shitty boss

Anyway
It's so over
It's so long long time ago
So heck the company
& let it go & die

*pui*

Like I'd said
I dont believe I didnt do well
That's why I fought for my existence
But the limit to it is
Never stay too long to fight for something that will never occur
Take an alternative and start all over again

That's why I'm here

Emo Friday

Last day at work
Yet it was full of sadness
Rather than anger

Called it impulsive?
Guess not either

My department people are not aware of me leaving
Bet my Farewell email had shocked each of them

My team mates, dept people and Director gave me a farewell gift
I was caught by surprise
Yet with uproaring emotions

Nearing the end of the day
I broke down in tears

Not the regretful type
But the I'm-so-gonna-miss-you-guys tears

Sigh

If only my effort was being recognised

Anyway
It's all over

My new life starts again
Wish me luck

Alice had a pack of keropok fresh from Terrenganu
& I wanted a small portion of it
So I went to her house to collect it
at 10pm

DarDar drove me over
& then suddenly
My Honda Civic broke down

.................................

It seems that the alternater (or whatever you call it) broke down
Couldnt start at all
So I called Er ge down for assistance

Er Ge came within 10 minutes
Reversed his car to face our car so he could connect his battery to our battery via the 'kiap kiap'
Traffic was abit heavy
& it was pretty much a challenge

After testing
Er Ge confirmed that Honda Civic is dead
Need to tow

As we were talking about it
A Mitsubishi Lancer stopped behind us
DarDar & I thought 'Kaoz, which idiot also have his car spoilt?'
Then we realised it's Jack

Haha
Car broke down also got supporter

Er Ge then left since there's nothing much he could do
But thanks alot for coming for assistance

While we waited for the tow service
Dean came
Our next supporter
& we chatted till the tow came

After that
Dean drove us to NUS where he needed to fetch his workers home
& we had a short drink
We chatted alot of ghostly stories
Until my hair all stood up

It was around 230am we reached home

& today
I never go work
Fever

Dr Chow offered me 2 days MC but I could only take one
Tomorrow must rush work

Sigh
Why before I leave must do so many shits?

Entering the last week of work
& it sucks!

Alot of things to work on
& alot of things that I've been working on that I dont bear losing them

BUT

I cant take it anymore

The more I do, the blur-er I get
The more I do, the more it doesnt make sense
The more I do, the more stupid I find myself have been

The End

A colleague gave me a farewell gift
It's a handphone chain she got from Japan
With sparkling cat's eye stones

I was kinda touched

I only liased with her for several times
& she told me she felt sad that I'm going

Sigh
Everyone tells me that

Too bad you are all not my boss

Boring

It's Sunday
DarDar abandoned me behind while I was still sleeping to go fishing
AGAIN

I cant imagine when we get married
Appears to be those typical housewife alone at home

Good thing is
Other than cleaning the whole damn house
Which I will never do
I'm surfing the net

But bloody shit
I always surf net whether I'm at home or not

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz

Sky's turning grey
Kinda anticipating the rain

When it rains
DarDar cant fish
So he'll come home
Wooohoooo

I'm evil

But who cares

One more week of work before I officially retire from 'hell'

With my new boss implementing work processes & procedures
All of us are in a clearer picture that our BIG boss is incompetent
It's all about quantity but no quality
Even if there's quality
It takes several long steps instead of immediate step for completion

My colleagues are complaining likewise
YEahhhhhhhhhhh

I'm smart
^^
Smart enough to see what's up her sleeve before I falls into her Black-widow trap

I'm craving for seafood
Wanna go Malaysia for a feast, anyone?

I dont remember what I wanted to blog about

Ermm...

I'm fearing the way how DarDar drives

Everytime I drive he screams at me
That's coz I am too near the car in front
Or other only he-can-think reasons

When he drives at 80km/hr on small road
Honks people when he is impatient
Accelerate at bends
I kept quiet

Until I couldnt take it anymore

I told him off coz he's risking my life together with him
Yes, marriage vows say till death do us part
But not accidental death

This evening
We wanted to head to town for dinner
But the road was very congested
& so cars were sipping through available gaps in next lane

Apparently
DarDar is starting off
& the car next to us did not signal as he overtook our lane & to the side
So we were like so close to kissing his CRV ass

DarDar honked him
& winded down the window & asked him why he didnt signal
The man was angry and replied 'Why people can overtake I cant overtake?'

Which I think he's not answering the question properly
& he starting scolding DarDar saying he doesnt know how to drive
The bitch beside him was screaming 'Donno how to drive just shut up'

I told DarDar just shut it up
Firstly I didnt wanna start an arguement after work
Secondly we dont gain anything but anger

When the green light turned
DarDar sped in front & overtook him

& then
The CRV hit us on the right!!!!

CHAO CHEE BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
CHEEBYE MIDDLE AGE MAN SO SMALL GAS
MUST BE THAT CHEEBYE BITCH
HE THINK HIS BUMPER RUBBED US NOTHING HAPPEN AH?
I CAN REPORT YOU HIT & RUN LOH!
CHAO CHEE BYE
YOU BULLY MY HONDA CIVIC!
I NEVER LET YOU KISS MY ASS CONSIDER I GENEROUS LIAO
THINK YOU CRV BIG MEANS REALLY BIG AH?
SMALL GAS PEOPLE DRIVING BIG CAR = DWARF WEARING KING'S CLOTHES

I was petrified and angry at the same time
Petrified coz this is my 1st time engaging an arguement
and we are amatuer drivers that wouldnt be able to win should we fight
Angry coz he hit my civic with childish behaviour

HELLO!!!!
50 years old guy come play bumper car on Singapore Road
You think everyone's blind on a congested road in town?

Luckily
My civic only suffered superficial abrasion & bruises
Which can be recovered using Turtle Wax

As for him
I got down his plate number

I'm sorry Mr Chao Chee Bye
You're not gonna make your way back to Singapore from Malaysia with your CRV
You may try selling your bitch to some corrupted mata
Probably they can just return you your steering wheel

Kinda spoil my Thursday night

I'd told DarDar to drive safely
And reminded him to give way at all times even if the person is wrong
Honks should only be used in case of emergency warning

I hope those gets into his brains

Otherwise
I think I'll just stick to my yellow bendy Mercedes

Bitch

Tell me I'm not helping you enough
When it's beyond my control
Of course that's the most I could do
Why insist I do something that is way beyond my control & I cant change the history?!

Fuck lah!
You got no mouth to talk to me ah?
Always ask your man to talk to me
Is it you who want the job or your husband wants it?
Remember the last sentence you said before you left?

'I'm not very desperate about not getting the job'

Yah right
Why is your man calling me so often?

I offered my suggestion to help you
I did not force you to do things you're not comfortable with
Why did you said I persuaded you to do things you are not comfortable with?

THIS IS A TOTAL FUCKED UP BULLSHIT!

Good thing I'm leaving
Stupid bloody bitch

It's been long I last visit my Dept
So I popped over this afternoon

When I was there
Everyone was so happy to see me
& I chatted with them
Then
the HOD came
"Cynthia... when is your last day?"
Everyone was shocked
& asked me why am I leaving, when is it, what I'll be doing, etc
Asked me to stay... dont go

Hah

& then one of the staffs cried

*gasps*

I found my job meaningful
But it's not appreciative
The effort provided to the Dept was greatly appreciated
But the appreciation is not recognised

What's the point?

But at least
I'm glad that I'd left deep impact to my very 1st batch of people I knew
From strangers to friends

If the working environment isnt that bad
If the boss isnt that sacarstic
If my work is appreciative
I would consider staying

But too bad
It's too late

I'm planning an overseas trip
Either to Phuket or Langkawi
Price is almost the same
Maybe a +/- SGD$50

But

DarDar doesnt feel easy going Phuket
Coz he scares got tsunami
I also abit scared
But I think lightning wont strike twice at same place

I went Langkawi before
But DarDar didnt
The island is so sparsely developed that it sorta feels like Batam
Only that they understand my broken Melayu

I donno which to decide
DarDar says 'up to you loh'
When he says that
I also sian
Coz I also cant decide when it comes to travel

=|

*picks Koko shits*
Langkawi? Phuket? Langkawi? Phuket?

Ah
Feels good resting at home
Heck care about office stuffs

Yesterday spoke to one of the colleagues from another department
He said:"Goodness, can you just switch off your phone after office hours?"
Hahaha
I requested him to call me after office hours but he's so kind to tell me that I shouldnt be working beyond 6

Oh well

Then
I broke the news to him
He went silent for several seconds
& asked
"You serious?"

Geez
He's shocked that I'm leaving
Kept asking me why why why
Said he appreciated my work, want me stay

But too bad
You're not my boss

So anything
Having a break today isnt that bad too
I can do whatever I want

Went for an interview this morning
One of the most interesting interviews I'd ever gone

Or probably coz it's been long I've ever attended one

Oh nevermind
Had a good morning spent with DarDar

I really feel better
I think i'd made a right choice

Too bad Damien didnt informed me earlier about this weekend's dive
If not, I'll be there

Sigh....

DarDar & I quarrelled on the day when Singapore grew one year older
For the first time

& it's all about the car

DarDar kept complaining that I drove very reckless
Donno how to control the car
Donno when to brake
Donno whatever-procedures-you-can-think-of-when-diving

I was damn pissed off

I haven been driving for the past 1 year after I'd gotten my license
& when I do
It's only of a mere 1km distance

Now
Having a car truly to us 24/7
I then get the chance to step on the pedals

DarDar drove most of the time
Outta 10 trips, he drove 8
Of coz I am not able to catch up with my long-lost skills
& there he goes
Confusing me with his way of driving
& scolding me of my way of driving

Why am I not trusted of the way I do things?

Is it really true that men think women cant drive?

I was damn fucking frustrated

On the way to Tampines IKEA
A Mugeno wanted to come out of the exit
Stopping behind the white STOP line

I stopped in front of it at the junction
As there are cars lining up to make the corner turn
The Mugeno horned me

"Knn.. horn what sia.."
"You're blocking her"
"Block what? There's no fucking yellow box! There're cars in front! Is it my fault?"

Oh tell me all my theories I'd learnt are wrong
Tell me all my driving skills are wrong
Tell me everything I do is wrong

I felt inferior again
Fought myself hard not to think of all that had happened since I graduated

It seems to me that since then
I have never been successful in everything I do

Spend so much money
Waste so much time
Succeeded nothing

& further pops a question from the penile homosapiens
'I wonder how you got your driving license'

yah
& I wondered how you could NOT get your license at one go

I did

& when I dont drive
I read the map
He dont understand my directions
& can question
"You know how to read map or not?"

I feel like slapping him with the Street Directory
I got A1 for my Geography
People call me 'Human GPS'
& again
I'm not trusted

So even if we get lost
There's always a way

Yesterday we went to Toa Payoh
Both of us had no idea about that neighbourhood
Missed the junction
Made 3 U-turns before reaching

I told him there's no need to U-turn
Coz in front got a cut-through route to the destination
& you think he cares?

Another U-turn

Whatever

Both of us were very sad after the quarel
I asked him one question on the bed
"Dont you feel happier if we're still riding on the bus?"

He broke down to cry

Do you know that I can get pissed off when...
- I dont get the things I want?
- things that doesnt come to me involves (alot of) money?

I am so pissed that I can strangle an elephant

I lost the company phone during my dive trip last July
So I had to replace it
Unfortunately
It's outta production
So it's rare in the market
I had to buy it online

Won the phone in the auction
DarDar negotiated
Deal made
Payment transferred
Never see the phone

Called to enquire
Said already mailed
But still no sight

Tell me
Do you...
1) feel cheated?
2) feel stupid?
3) feel it's wasting my time?
4) wanna kill that asshole?

ALL OF THE ABOVE!!

I demanded for the phone number of that guy
DarDar refused to give me
So I went to search for it in the auction
Found & SMSed him
He better replies
Or I'm going to teach him about honesty

I'm now serving my month's notice
I must die die get the phone before I left
Thus the urgency
& this CHAOCHEEBYELANJIAO is eating my money, wasting my time

Never ate lao niang's fist before never know how death feels like

I'm giving him 2 more days...

My fist needs to warm up 48 hours in advance

I finally completed my Basic Medical Terminology Course
Gotten a certificate
Wooohhoooo

Now I can spurt out all those chim chim words
For example:
"Wah lao...tell you so many times liao you still donno, I can get hematemesis leh.."

Meaning:
I can vomit blood

*grins*

Oh all aside
I was down with fever
& now still abit
I'm looking forward to National Day
I can rest
& also earn a public holiday during my notice period

Yes
I am tendering
Tomorrow
8 August
Huat huat!

Auspicious day mah!
^^

Just now drove back home in my black Honda Civic with blue eyes
I called it 'Lambodini' (named after my friend Dean)
Took 15mins
So far so good
No kana horned
But I dashed red light
BWHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
& also did the most daring stunts that even my DarDar hasnt succeed me
I did a 2 seconds wheel spin

.............

Actually I couldnt get my biting point
So wheel-spun on the spot
& luckily didnt stall
So I pretended to 'demo' to whoever saw it

BWHAHAHAHAHA

Knn wanna die liao still so wanna save face

Buay sai
I must practise my driving
My Lambodini is waiting for me

I saw a hawkbill turtle 4 times at Labrador Park today!
KNN
FOUR TIMES OK!!
I'd never seen so much during my dive trips!

Initially one of the anglers were pulling his line damn hard
Then it snapped off
& suddenly
I saw a brown mass surfacing to the surface
I pointed out to Dean
& both of us were so excited about it
DarDar was shitting, so he missed it
Hahaha
Minutes later
The turtle came up again for an additional 3 times
WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I wonder where it came from

Got one xiao didi came to talk to DarDar
So cute
Looking from the back
It seems like father & son talking baout fishing
=p

Got 2 fishes!
A wrasse & a juvenile half-beak(?)



Threw the wrasse back
But kept the half-beak
Wahahaha

Not a bad day today at Labrador
Other than on the way
Kana scolded by DarDar coz he said I freaked him out when I drove
Knn
Orbi
Lao niang pass TP one time nia
You have to take three times loh
Slap you

Dad needs to return HK next next week
Grandaunt's feeling very weak
She's having illusion of her dying
Getting more & more paranoid

Cant blame her
I guess I'll be like that too when I'm old, weak & ugly

I'm hesitating to return HK
To get some nice cheap ROM dresses
But DarDar couldnt make it back with me

Sigh
See how lah

I hope she'll be fine

I managed to reach home 'early' so I could ask if Mum wanna go Batam shopping on National Day
But then Mum was busy talking on the phone with Aunt
Sounding all so worried & surprised, at the same time

Dad started shouting at her & my Aunt
Non stop

I hate it when my Dad starts shouting
Because it's all nonsense with no filters

Same old issue

I tried to peace him down with examples
& He kept on saying he wont care
& let my Mum settle it all

I asked:"Is this the way you love Mum?"
He kept silent
Then responded:"I'd already told her to stop helping. One day she'll be dragged down"
"So you would wanna see her being dragged down alone by not helping her together?"
He kept silent again
& responded:"This is her family's issue. The [my surname]s should stay away"
"& let the [Mum's surname]s to suffer herself?"
"No... but we cant poke into other people's matter. When people turned around & asked you why do you care, how?"
"Are you afraid? Mum's married to you so you should help. Does that mean that when I'm married to the [DarDar's surname]s I could least care about you?"

Silence
With soft sobs coming from my left
Where Dad's standing at the door,with face pressed on his stretched arm

"Mum, why dont you talk to Uncle first before you transfer any money over? Somehow I believe that Uncle still cares about his daughter. Needless to say he should be grateful to his sister who has been helping his daughter all the while until she couldnt take it anymore. Tell me which asshole doesnt love his daughter & his sister? If no one dares to tell him, I will do it. I dont believe everyone's so heartless...."

Mum thought for a while

"I dont believe that Big Cousin doesnt have the money. He could spend a million decorating his house, keeping 2 arowanas & an ugly Pursian. $4k is not alot"

"YAH LAH, That's what I'm angry about. He's so rich & still must ask us for money"

"Hello... did you say a shit about it? You kept shouting about nothing like this"

"Ok ok... come, gimme your bankbook.. I go transfer the money tomorrow"

"Why? Why are you now giving in to transfer the money? If this is your final decision, why start arguing in the first place? Very fun isit? Everytime I come home you're asleep. Now wanna talk to you guys always argue!"

Silence

"It's getting late... go sleep.. your DarDar is waiting for you"

"Just dont transfer anything till I grab Uncle's phone number... then we'll see how it goes..."

Mum hugged & kissed me
For the 1st time I could remember over the 24 years

My eye blood vessels burst wor!
So power

Must be the radiation from my stupid office computer

Oh yes
Time for MC again =D

Damn Qi Gek...
Some people just dont understand confidentiality
Make my life difficult...

Something...
is...
wrong...
with...
me....

I got very frustrated since morning
I didnt wanna speak to anyone on the phone
But it just keep ringing
Asking me things that I'd heard many times over & over again
I feel so shitty
I didnt feel like doing anything & act busy by staring at the computer screen & clicking the mouse
I didnt wanna repeat myself with every word that came out
I didnt wish to explain things not needed

Tears flooded my eye bag
Damn could I hardly read now

Sigh

I am scared

Am I handling too much than I should be?

Am I worrying too much than I shouldnt be?

Where is me?

Think I'm losing myself again
Hello hello.. testing 1 2 3

I'm glad I have 3 months of rest before I start a new journey
Be it a worse or better path ahead
I think I'd still prefer this

I'm pampered by my DarDar
>_<
He bought me an iPamper

Wooohooo~
It's been one year
& I'm officially off my P-plate
Now I can drive without it

Yeaaaahhhh

But I have no car

............

Few more months
DarDar is buying me a car

I love my DarDar
Hohohoho

Yesterday DarDar & Dean caught many tilapias
Think got around 8
Ate 4
Yum yum

He's hooked
Idiot
Make sure he catches a giant grouper tonight
Or else he can never enter my house anymore

I think....
I can not study anymore

As in
My brains are not focused!

I was trying to complete my theories off my Rescue Diver Manual
But things seep in very slowly

Either I was reading it damn slow
Or I wasnt focusing

Die

If my MSc application really succeed
How will I do?

Sigh

Going Malaysia AGAIN tomorrow
No choice
DarDar's grandpa's birthday
Donno whatta wear wor
Now so fat
Every nicest clothes I have can no longer fit beautifully

Sigh sigh sigh sigh

Best liao loh
Handphone really MIA
Sigh

Reported to the police

The police officer so friendly
Bwhahaha
Asked me where I went
Coz he saw me so tanned

Kekeke

Anyway
Luckily my boss never say anything
But I wouldnt care
Leaving in 1.5mths
Hell to her

DarDar & I were discussing how to survive after I quit
Coz after I quit
There's so many things to be done

But I insist of leaving
& walk the path ahead slowly

I'd come across many obstacles
& I'm still doing good

Koko keeps scratching itself
Even though I'd bathed it
Shit
Hope not skin allergy like Momo
=~

No more holidays for me until next year Jan to Similan
I hope my 1st dive of the new year will be PERFECT
As it's also my honeymoon trip

Wooohooooo
I'm finally going Thailand after my 24 years!

Tired ahhhhhhhhhhh
My whole body is aching now
=(

Had my rescue diver course over the weekend
The journey to Dayang was torturous
The currents were so fucking strong & the boat rocked from side to side
Us all sleeping in the bunk felt nauseous

When we reached Dayang, it was around 530am

1st dive at 10am
The dive was ok until we surfaced
& that's when our assignment started

Stella act as unconscious breathing victim floating on the surface
Sandy & I looked at each other
& jumped in with the buoyant to rescue

Die la
Never check breathing
& poor Stella knocked her head here & there coz of surface waves
& I pushed her up onto the boat
Blah blah blah
Then Stella woke up
& said:"Who taught you to touch people's breasts when you rescue? I was molested by you all over"
Me replied:"Rescue people where got care touch where one..."

We just laughed

2nd scenario on panicked victim overboard
Sandy & I jumped into water to rescue
Siao liao
By then both of us damn tired loh...
So ....
BWHAHAHAHAHAHA

We almost 'killed' the victim

Rescue breaths on surface is tiring
I couldnt jump up to provide the breaths
& kept kana scolded
=~

At our 3rd dive
Sandy injured her knee when she was trying to swim to take photo of a big porcupine fish
Despite injured, we still continued to swim abit to take pic of a giant triggerfish
& we surfaced
Coz Sandy felt it's too painful

Upon onshore
She had 4 punctured wounds on her kneecap
But didnt know what that was by...

We skipped night dive & went for dawn dives
We had to check the tank pressure one by one coz it was not refilled!
& when we wanna enter the water
Sandy forgot to bring her fins
x_X
So she borrowed someone's fins who left it on the shore

& so we entered
Half way
Sandy ascended
Her camera flooded
& then the remaining three of us went leisure for a while
Until I spotted them
As I signalled to Damien
Damien kana Crown of thorns on his kneecap

Crown of thorns is venomous
But luckily Damien's wound wasnt as bad as Sandy's

So the next day's dives
I was alone
& my last scenario was havoc
I was so unprepared
& so theorectically focused
That I realised I wasted time

It wasnt about assessing on the spot but is like rewinding what's the step A-Z before acting on it

I would say that I performed badly
Was abit disappointed with myself
=(

But first of all
I was not even prepared to take this course as well
Due to time & other sorts
But at least I learnt how such scenarios will look like
If it ever occurs

Over the weekend
It's been a good one
Though lack of some encouragement expected
A bit demoralisation still exists

& best thing of all
I LOST MY COMPANY PHONE!!!!

kana sai
Die liao
Donno have to pay how much
*sobz*

I thought I could just let it go
Close one eye & say 'You win'
& then live my life happily ever after

'Good horses dont eat grasses behind him'
(Hao ma bu chi hui tou chao)

I'm a bad horse

& what did I do?
I wanna stab the 'I win You lose' flag on her forehead

Fuck lah
The more I think the more buay song I feel
I should get what I should get

If it's a wrong path that I'd chosen
Then be it the wrong path
Surely at some point at my path
There's a new beginning to choose

I'd seen the world now
What more have I not?

Life is all about black & white
Who cares about colors
when your world is gray even with the best way it could go

I'd missed out my Triple Seven Day
Ha
07 07 07
What a nice number to get wed

& so did my DarDar's ex-tutor

He held his at Labrador Park
Solemnization & banquet all in a day

The place is great
The atmosphere fits very well

Nice bouncy cushion for my ass
The solemnization to be done in the glass house in the midst of the swimming pool!
Long time never self snap liao
Rolls Royce up close & personal
*muackz*
In the restaurant..
The couple =)
I like this glass plague with pic laser-ed in it
DarDar signing the autograph book
The solemnization started

Oh
I thought the solemnization takes a long time
But it was only a few minutes
& when the couples said their vows
I almost teared

It's so touching

Imagine when I were to cry like fuck when I am to say that in 4 months time

Banquet started right after
& the montage that my DarDar did!

Food was alright...
Tried not to eat so much
I'm on diet!
Will go for extreme exercise when I quit my job totally

Anyway
So the rest was just about food & drinks
Games & kisses

Poor Roderick was toasted to OUR heart's content


I bet that was like 5 litres of mixed liquor in it

DarDar drank along with him
& he puked his whole stomach out back home
Dropped dead right beside me while I enjoyed my Live Earth Concert

I'd attended 3 wedding banquets so far
Seeing new couples becoming together makes me feel happy
& soon it's my turn

We shall see how it goes...

It's only 1 week later
I recieved several compliments which comes abit too late

It's OK

Now at least I got myself recognised
Effort acknowledged

Someone's boss walked up to my boss & complimented me directly right in her face

I know I wasnt that bad at all

But you know how discrimination is when BIG SHOT always has the authority....

Oh well

Great
All the documents needed for my Masters are almost completed
God Bless Me!

Siao liao
The responsibility in taking up further dive skills are damn huge!
Now I will have to save people in the water

But
I'm proud too
It really needs lotsa patience and courage to go for it

Imagine you cant even save yourself and yet wanna save other people

Just now had my pool session
Not bad
Edwin said I performed good

After rescuing the diver in the water
I have to bring the victim up onto the boat
So I must learn the right techniques to get the person out successfully

Edwin be victim loh
Big muscular guy
& he's so heavy!
But I still managed to

Edwin only warned me not to crack his back

BWAHAHAHHAHA

Oh well
Shall see how it goes next week
Hope they dont te-gan me until I am the exhausted victim needing rescue

I still haven read my manual to prepare for my written exams

So many things to do!

On the other hand
My Msc application is now 70% completed

Excited

It's not so bad afterall!
*grins big big*

I had a very nice chat with my supervisor
& she likes me
=D

Probably coz my interest and hers are the same
& that she knows my ex-supervisor
& then she wanna get me in as a PT staff to help her out, provided got enough funds
& she will write in a very strong supporting letter for my MSc application
WOOOOHOOO!

Even before i'd officially joined the team
She brought me around & introduced me to her other students

How cool can she be man?!

Speaking about bosses
My this future boss is surely the better one as compared to my current one

Ha!

I must strive hard!
GAMBATTE!

Feels so good to be NOT working
Ahhhhhhh...

Just one more month

Went fishing with DarDar & friends last night near Woodlands Checkpoint
Got other people fishing
As well as a pair of couple quarrelling
Screaming at her boyfriend why he went to watch RA show

@_@

Kinda exciting
Coz after the big hoo-ha
The 2 of them held hands and left

ZZZzzzzz

No fish at all
Bored like shit
& also damn sleepy
Until 1am
We decided to call for MacDonalds delivery

Oh yes
They even send it to the damn ulu place that we were at

Slept for few hours & then have to wake up to think of a proposal!
Die lahhhhhh

I donno what to propose
& I also donno if my proposal meets her idea
Later I came up with a damn sucky one
Scare she dont want me to be her student anymore

*sob sob*

Ok, i better get going
Ciaoz